We have compiled a range of third party resources for your help and assistance

"I would like to thank the Fund on behalf of my family. We used the money to host a family get-together over the festive period to remember our loved ones. We are inspired by your charity - What you've achieved is tremendous"

John Burke-Monverville, Father (Monerville brothers)

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"Thanks for your generosity and helping us with Jack's Living Memorial, and the five children in Bali who'll benefit from the funds received. It has brought his spirit close to us, and we know he would be very proud this is happening in his name"

Anna Susianta, Mother of Jack Susianta

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"The funding has helped us to set up the UNGRIPP campaign website. We hope this will help us to push for change and is in memory of my brother, Tommy. We can't thank you enough for the funding that helped this to become possible"

Donna Mooney, Sister of Tommy Nicol

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"To all that made it possible for the donation that I received from the Family Fund - thank you. It has been put to good use. I badly needed new memorial garden fencing before the winter arrived. it's now been delivered and put in place"

Jan Butler, Mother of Lloyd Butler

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"Thanks to the Family Fund for its financial support at such a difficult time. Funds went towards buying much-needed carpets - campaigning for so long, I neglected my home. I also received a grant towards my book on Christopher's case"

Janet Alder, sister of Christopher Alder

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"The grant helped to pay bills that I'd fallen behind with due to the death of my son, and not being able to work. The grant was extremely useful and enabled my family breathing space and not having the debt distraction. We are very grateful"

Samantha Millers, Mother of Charlie Millers

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We have compiled a range of third party resources for your help and assistance

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On this page you can find a range of resources and useful links to information and support agencies compiled specifically to assist families that are affected by custody deaths, killings or abuse in the United Kingdom.

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last updated : 13 April 2026

Featured Support

Here are four particular sources of support, advice and information that are recommended for affected families, campaigns or individuals.

Cruse Bereavement Care is the leading national charity for bereaved people in England, Wales and Northern Ireland.

Red Alert HELP! provides an interactive online advice portal that is available 24/7 x 365 per year, designed to help you find the information, services or support that you need.

Developed by 4WardEverUK.

You can use the Counselling Directory's simple search tool to easily find a counsellor or therapist in your local area.

The Skills and Support Toolkit is a resource for families and friends dealing with the aftermath of a sudden bereavement in state custody. Also see their Handbook >

Developed by INQUEST.

Support & Resources

BBC Action Line (new)

Collective Punishment

Contact your local MP

CCTV and the Data Protection Act

Just for Kids Law

INQUEST - Help & Support (updated)

StepChange | The Debt Charity

Legal Defence & Monitoring Group

Libcom : No comment; The guide to arrest www.tinyurl.com/42tt499k

NHS 111 Crisis Mental Health Support (new)

Law Firms & Guides

CO-OP Award winning probate solicitors (new)

Deighton Pierce Glynn Solicitors (updated)

Garden Court Chambers

Hudgell Solicitors

Inside Time (Legal advisories) (updated)

LawWorks (Free legal advice for individuals)

MK Law

PANNONE Solicitors

Quality Solicitors.com

Subject Access Requests – an introduction to personal data requests by Netpol

More Resources on www.4wardeveruk.org

See a comprehensive library of useful links:www.4wardeveruk.org/links/useful-links

Feedback By Some Grant Recipients!

"I would like to thank the Fund on behalf of my family. We used the money to host a family get-together over the festive period to remember our loved ones. We are inspired by your charity - What you've achieved is tremendous"

"Thanks for your generosity and helping us with Jack's Living Memorial, and the five children in Bali who'll benefit from the funds received. It has brought his spirit close to us, and we know he would be very proud this is happening in his name"

"The funding has helped us to set up the UNGRIPP campaign website. We hope this will help us to push for change and is in memory of my brother, Tommy. We can't thank you enough for the funding that helped this to become possible"

"To all that made it possible for the donation that I received from the Family Fund - thank you. It has been put to good use. I badly needed new memorial garden fencing before the winter arrived. it's now been delivered and put in place"

"Thanks to the Family Fund for its financial support at such a difficult time. Funds went towards buying much-needed carpets - campaigning for so long, I neglected my home. I also received a grant towards my book on Christopher's case"

"The grant helped to pay bills that I'd fallen behind with due to the death of my son, and not being able to work. The grant was extremely useful and enabled my family breathing space and not having the debt distraction. We are very grateful"

See a comprehensive library of useful links:
www.4wardeveruk.org/links/useful-links